What Am I Looking For in a Sexual Relationship?
We all have certain criteria that we are looking for in a sexual relationship. The following is a
list of some of these criteria. Choose five factors that you want to be PRESENT in your sexual
relationship and rank order these 1 through 5 (1 being the most important). Then choose five
factors that you want to be ABSENT in your sexual relationships and rank order these 1 through
5 (1 being the least desirable). Feel free to add any other criteria to your lists if they do not
appear below.
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Age
Attraction
Commitment
Companionship
Consideration
Contraceptive protection
Dependence
Equality
Expectations
Feeling at ease
Honesty
Interdependence
Jealousy
Love
Openness
Possessiveness
Same Race
Reciprocity
Religion
Respect
Security
Third-party sex partner
Trust
Experimentation
Pressure
Dominance
Communication
Variety
Frequency of sex
Physical appearance
Sense of humor
Intelligence
Sexually experienced
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