DAVID’S FIGHT FOR JOY: THE SPIRAL OF SIN AND THE PATH OF GRACE 2 Samuel 11-12 BIG IDEA: Joy is found in uncovering our sin and throwing ourselves on the grace of God. The Spiral of Sin James 1:13-15 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. 14 But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. The Spiral of Sin James 1:13-15 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. 14 But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. 1. Distraction The Spiral of Sin James 1:13-15 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. 14 But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. 2. Seduction The Spiral of Sin James 1:13-15 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. 14 But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. 3. Conception The Spiral of Sin James 1:13-15 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. 14 But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. 4. Action The Spiral of Sin James 1:13-15 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. 14 But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. 15 Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. 5. Destruction 1. Distraction James 5:14a But each person is tempted when he is lured… 2 Samuel 11:1 In the spring of the year, the time when kings go out to battle, David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel. And they ravaged the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. 1. Distraction James 5:14a But each person is tempted when he is lured… 2 Samuel 11:1 In the spring of the year, the time when kings go out to battle, David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel. And they ravaged the Ammonites and besieged Rabbah. But David remained at Jerusalem. 2. Seduction James 5:14b ...and enticed by his own desire. 2 Samuel 11:2 2 It happened, late one afternoon, when David arose from his couch and was walking on the roof of the king's house, that he saw from the roof a woman bathing; 2. Seduction James 5:14b ...and enticed by his own desire. 2 Samuel 11:2 2 It happened, late one afternoon, when David arose from his couch and was walking on the roof of the king's house, that he saw from the roof a woman bathing; and the woman was very beautiful. 3. Conception James 5:15a Then desire when it has conceived… 2 Samuel 11:3-4a 3 And David sent and inquired about the woman. And one said, “Is not this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?” 3. Conception James 5:15a Then desire when it has conceived… 2 Samuel 11:3-4a 3 And David sent and inquired about the woman. And one said, “Is not this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?” 1. 2. 3. 4. Rationalizing Minimizing Blame-shifting Psychologizing 3. Conception James 5:15a Then desire when it has conceived… 2 Samuel 11:3-4a 3 And David sent and inquired about the woman. And one said, “Is not this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?” So David… 4. Action James 5:15a …gives birth to sin. 2 Samuel 11:4a 4 So David sent messengers and took her, and she came to him, 4. Action James 5:15a …gives birth to sin. 2 Samuel 11:4a 4 So David sent messengers and took her, and she came to him, and he lay with her. 4. Action 2 Samuel 11:4b-5 (Now she had been purifying herself from her uncleanness.) Then she returned to her house. 5 And the woman conceived, and she sent and told David, “I am pregnant.” Summarize 2 Samuel 11:6-27 4. Action 2 Samuel 11:4b-5 (Now she had been purifying herself from her uncleanness.) Then she returned to her house. 5 And the woman conceived, and she sent and told David, “I am pregnant.” Summarize 2 Samuel 11:6-27 But the thing that David had done displeased the LORD. 5. Destruction James 5:15b …and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. Psalm 32:3-4 3 For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. 4 For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. 5. Destruction James 5:15b …and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. Psalm 32:3-4 3 For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. 4 For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. Selah God’s Grace in Rebuke Nathan’s Parable (2 Samuel 12:1-4) David’s Anger (2 Samuel 12:5-6) God’s Grace in Rebuke Nathan’s Parable (2 Samuel 12:1-4) David’s Anger (2 Samuel 12:5-6) You are the man! God’s Grace in Rebuke 2 Samuel 12:13a 13 David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the LORD.” 2 Samuel 13b And Nathan said to David, “The LORD also has put away your sin; you shall not die. God’s Grace in Rebuke 2 Samuel 12:13a 13 David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the LORD.” 2 Samuel 13b And Nathan said to David, “The LORD also has put away your sin; you shall not die. Proverbs 28:13 Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy. The Path of Grace 1. 2. 3. Boldly Ask Humbly Confess Humbly Repent 1. Boldy Ask Psalm 51:1-2 Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin! 1. Boldy Ask Psalm 51:1-2 Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin! 1. Boldy Ask Psalm 51:1-2 Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin! 1. Boldy Ask Psalm 51:1-2 Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. 2 Wash me2:13-14 Colossians 13 Andfrom you, my whoiniquity, were dead in thoroughly your and trespasses and thefrom uncircumcision cleanse me my sin! of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, 14 by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross. 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me. 6 Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart. 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me. 6He takes full responsibility. Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart. 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me. 6 Behold, Hisyousin isinagainst God. delight truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart. 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, and my is sin isdeeply ever before depraved. me. He 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me. 6 Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart. 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, and my is sin isdeeply ever before depraved. me. He 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 Behold, “In short, a man must beiniquity, set free from I was brought forth in sin did mother conceivehim me. do the theand sininhe is, my which makes 6 Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, sin he does.” -- George MacDonald and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart. 2. Humbly Confess “Evangelical repentance is repentance of sin as sin: not of this sin nor of that, but of the whole mass. We repent of the sin of our nature as well as the sin of our practice. We bemoan sin within us and without us. We repent of sin itself as being an insult to God. Anything short of this is a mere surface repentance, and not a repentance which reaches to the bottom of the mischief. Repentance of the evil act, and not of the evil heart, is like men pumping water out of a leaky vessel, but forgetting to stop the leak. Some would dam up the stream, but leave the fountain still flowing; they would remove the eruption from the skin, but leave the disease in the flesh.” -- Charles Haddon Spurgeon 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, andHe my sin is ever before me.honest. is brutally 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me. 6 Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart. 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, andHe my sin is ever before me.honest. is brutally 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 I acknowledged my sin to you, 5 Behold, Psalm 32:5 I was brought forth in iniquity, andand I didin not cover iniquity; I said, sin did my my mother conceive me. “I will 6 Behold,my confess theinward LORD,” and youtransgressions delight in truth intothe being, youand forgave the iniquity of my sin.secret Selahheart. you teach me wisdom in the 2. Humbly Confess Psalm 51:3-6 3 For I know my transgressions, andHe my sin is ever before me.honest. is brutally 4 Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. 5 Behold, James 5:15b-16a Andforth if heinhas committed sins, I was brought iniquity, 16 Therefore, confess your he will forgiven. andbe in sin did my mother conceive me. 6 Behold, sins to one another pray for inward one being, you delight and in truth in the another, thatteach you me may be healed. and you wisdom in the secret heart. 3. Humbly Repent Psalm 51:10-11 10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. 11 Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me. 3. Humbly Repent Psalm 32:8-9 8 I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you. 9 Be not like a horse or a mule, without understanding, which must be curbed with bit and bridle, or it will not stay near you. JOY RESTORED! Psalm 51:12 12 Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me with a willing spirit. JOY RESTORED! Psalm 32:1-2 Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. 2 Blessed is the man against whom the LORD counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit. JOY RESTORED! Psalm 32:11 11 Be glad in the LORD, and rejoice, O righteous, and shout for joy, all you upright in heart! BIG IDEA: Joy is found in uncovering our sin and throwing ourselves on the grace of God.