Coaching in Early Intervention: What It Is & What It Isn’t Muff Perry ITC Harrisonburg Rockingham Jessica Norton First Words, Inc. Molly Zarski Albemarle Therapy Center Stacie Jackson ITC Staunton-Waynesboro Coaching in Virginia Objectives You will: Develop foundational knowledge about the coaching interaction style Identify the 5 different characteristics of coaching Practice asking reflective questions Determine next steps for self-learning What is coaching? “Coaching is not telling people what to do; it’s giving them a chance to examine what they are doing in light of their intentions.” (Flaherty, 1999) “Coaching is developing people on purpose. Coaching involves (the other person) in the process of planning, creating, and problem solving.” (Doyle 1991) “Coaching is individualized and based on the theory that each person has a unique knowledge base, and learning preference and styles, therefore, participants, progress at their own pace.” (Wild, Shambaugh, Isberg & Kaul, 1999) Coaching An adult learning strategy in which the coach promotes the learner’s (coachee’s) ability to reflect on his or her own actions as a means to determine the effectiveness of an action or practice and develop a plan for refinement and use of the action in immediate and future situations. In other words… Coaching is a relationship-based process that is used to improve existing skills, develop new skills, and build the competence and confidence of the family to achieve desired or intended outcomes. 6 Principles of Adult Learning Styles Voluntary participation Reciprocal respect Collaborative exchange Praxis Critical Reflection Self Direction What is the purpose of coaching in Early Intervention? Improve existing knowledge and practices within each family Help the family develop new skills Promote continuous self-assessment and learning on the part of the family. COMPETENCE & CONFIDENCE What it is? What it is not? Coaching is…. Interaction style Reflective Parent empowerment Involve family & provider Confidence & Competence Coaching is not.… Delivery method Provider hands-off Directive Starting over “Let me solve this problem for you” Natural Learning Environments The U.S. Code of Federal Regulations 303:12(4)(b)(2) defines natural environments as "settings that are natural or normal for the child's same age peers who have no disabilities.” In summary…. Seven Key Principles Coaching Characteristics: What does a session look like? Joint Planning Observation Action/practice Reflection Feedback Joint Planning Agreement between coachee & coach Encourages active participation Occurs for all coaching sessions Joint Planning Beginning of the Conversation Beginning is the end… Revisitation of the plan Predictable process/Focus Specific rather than general Joint Planning: Conclusion of the Conversation End is the beginning… Developed throughout the coaching session or the end of the visit Reviewing actions, observations, and topics discussed Summarize from both Coach and Coachee Joint Plan: Now what?? What does coach do when… the coachee leaves out critical strategy when summarizing? the coachee’s plan does not align with what coach thought was going to happen? “I always forget what we are working on” “I don’t know” “I don’t have time” Joint Plan Coaching NOT Coaxing Joint Plan: When you return Was the joint plan effective? Why or why not? How do you know? What happens next? REFLECTION not PERFECTION Observation Observing the real life activity of a family’s daily routine provides the opportunity to assess the action or practices with the goal of developing new skills, strategies and ideas. Observation of the Coachee by the Coach Observation of the Coach by the Coachee (coach models) Modeling Planned observation by the coachee of the coach or if a situation presents itself during the session to modify an activity Intentional 7 not Hopeful steps of Modeling Modeling 1. Explain what coach/coachee is doing, asking permission 2. Planned observation – give the parent a job to do 3. Coach models – this can be as hands on as it needs to be 4. Coach/Coachee discuss what worked and what didn’t 5. Invite parent to try strategy 6. Reflection – When, Where, How, What Worked, What didn’t 7. Joint Plan Action Practice of the agreed upon activity by the coach and coachee During the coaching session Between the coaching sessions Occurs within real life situations (natural learning opportunities) Reflection “Looking back with the goal of looking forward” (Daniels, 2002; Rush & Sheldon, 2011) Reflection Coach’s purpose: “to build the capacity of the coachee in a way that will promote ongoing selfassessment, planning, and acquisition of knowledge or skills by teaching the coachee to be aware of, continually examine, and refine his or her current knowledge and behavior” (Gallacher, 1996; Gilkerson, 2004; Rush & Sheldon, 2011) Reflection What the coach does: use reflective questions to help the coachee analyze the current situation encourage the coachee to generate alternatives and actions so that his or her knowledge and skills are continually improving (building competence) assist the coachee in achieving the desired outcome (building confidence) Reflection What the coachee does: determine what worked or did not work consider why it did or did not work during the observation and/or action generate ideas for what to do next Reflection Reflection ON action Reflection IN action Reflection FOR action Reflective Questioning Strive to: Ask open-ended questions Choose naturally-occurring questions which are in response to questions or comments made by the coachee Avoid leading questions that direct the coachee toward a particular answer or idea Be open to the coachee’s ideas Reflective Questioning TYPES of reflective questions: Awareness Analysis* Alternatives Action* Awareness Questions Promote the coachee’s understanding of what he or she already knows or is already doing May be used to clarify the situation or issue for both the coach and coachee so that everyone is on the same page Typically who, what, when, where, what have you tried?, Analysis Questions Support the coachee in comparing the current state to the desired future state Answers are usually not readily apparent to the coach or coachee so they typically lead the coachee to examining his or her thoughts, feelings, actions, intentions, and knowledge Typically ask how or why (“how does what just happened compare to what you would like to happen?”) Alternatives Questions Give the coachee the opportunity to consider a variety of possible options so that he or she can choose how to obtain the desired outcome Allow for brainstorming and opportunities to share or explore knowledge and ideas (“what are all the possible ideas to consider?”) Action Questions Help to develop the joint plan so that both the coach and coachee know what they are going to do as a result of the conversation Confirm exactly what will be done next, including specific steps for implementation and possibly even a back-up plan (“who is going to do what before the next time we meet?” “what will we focus on during our next visit?”) Reflective Questioning CONTENT of reflective questions: Knowledge Practice Outcomes Evaluation and understanding Reflective Questioning Let’s practice!!! “Friend” Scenario Coach – Friend 1 Coachee – Friend 2 – returning to work Observer A friend comes to you and is going back to work. She is trying to figure out child care – family day home or center based. Non-Sleeping Toddlers Coach – EI provider Coachee – Mom Observer “Remember last time we talked, I mentioned I could not get Timmy and Philip to sleep. I video’d what happens at nap time. What do I do about this?” Unhappy Wake-Up Coach – EI Provider w/ family for 2 months Coachee – Grandma Observer Joey is 25 month old and recently diagnosed with Autism. Grandma explains that Joey always wakes up screaming and she is not able to console him. She wants your help! Reflection “Just tell me what I need to do.” “She’s not going to do that.” “Fine.” What do we coaches do now??? Feedback ( Feedback Coach’s purpose: “to affirm the coachee’s reflections or actions or to add information to deepen the coachee’s understanding of the topic being discussed in order to jointly develop new ideas and actions” (Rush & Sheldon, 2011) Feedback What the coach does: use noncommittal acknowledgement, when appropriate, to affirm what the coachee says or does provide positive feedback, when necessary share information to build on the coachee’s knowledge and skills Feedback TYPES of feedback: Informative* Affirmative* Evaluative Directive Informative Feedback This shares knowledge and information with the coachee that is directly related to an observation, action, reflection, or direct question from the coachee It could provide research-based practices related to the situation or ideas resulting from the coach’s expertise and experience The timing and delivery is important Affirmative Feedback This results from active listening and provides noncommittal acknowledgement to let the coachee know that he or she has been heard and understood This could neutrally share the coach’s perceptions or observations of others It does NOT agree, disagree, or make any type of judgment Evaluative Feedback This provides a judgment of what has been observed or reported It’s not wrong and shouldn’t be withheld and many coachees appreciate hearing the coach’s assessment; HOWEVER, when evaluative feedback is overused, it becomes meaningless Directive Feedback This involves telling the coachee what to do It is generally inconsistent with coaching practices because it does not build the coachee’s capacity Should be used only when a clear and present danger exists and there is no time to engage the coachee in a coaching conversation It is different than direct instruction How Do We Build a Community of Practice? Mentoring Read coaching handbook Start or join a community meeting Brown Bag lunches Try a joint plan Book Study Other?