CONNECTEDNESS What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications CONNECTEDNESS What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications A sense of community Linking with others in meaningful relationship A sense of belonging and identity Part of something larger than yourself Mutual concern, mutual support Disconnected people may become lonely, alienated, depressed, homeless CONNECTEDNESS Your people shall be my people… What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications Pay It Forward Habitat for Humanity (60-sec “All Walks of Life” video) CONNECTEDNESS What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications Relational outcomes Mutual support Child development Physical health Personal achievement Academic success We’re all in this thing together! CONNECTEDNESS What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications Verbal and nonverbal immediacy cues reduce the distance personal warmth and approach appropriate touch Self-disclosure met with empathy Cognitive – I know what you’re saying Affective – I understand how you feel Behavioral – I care about you CONNECTEDNESS What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications Attitude Be aware that you need others and desire interpersonal contact Process Express this desire through competent communication Decision Choose daily to connect with others in meaningful ways CONNECTEDNESS What is it? What is the result? Yes, but how? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications Tips How to make friends Tips How to be more sociable CONNECTEDNESS What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I develop it? Readings and Applications • • • • • • Required Readings American children are starving for more connectedness Hardwired to Connect – A report on social connection in America The Native American perspective – An essay by Ruth Thunderhorse Family dinners as a means of connecting daily The many health benefits related to social connectedness Connectedness at school brings a sense of belonging and support Prompts for Today’s Journal Entry •To what extent do you agree or disagree with Dr. Blankenhorn’s ideas about American culture, as stated in the first article?