Compass: Directions for Life Compass: Directions for Life Compass: Directions for Life What to Say to a Gay Friend What to Say to a Gay Friend What to Say to a Gay Friend 1. ____________________________________ 1. ____________________________________ 1. ____________________________________ John 3:16-17 (NIV) 2. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ John 3:16-17 (NIV) 2. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ Genesis 2:18, 22, 24-25 (NIV) John 3:16-17 (NIV) 2. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ Genesis 2:18, 22, 24-25 (NIV) Genesis 2:18, 22, 24-25 (NIV) God’s design: God’s design: God’s design: _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ 3. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 3. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 3. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ Leviticus 18:22 - Romans 1:24-27 - 1 Cor. 6:9-10 Leviticus 18:22 - Romans 1:24-27 - 1 Cor. 6:9-10 Leviticus 18:22 - Romans 1:24-27 - 1 Cor. 6:9-10 4. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 4. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 4. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ “Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away. These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.” James 1:14-15 (NLT) “Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away. These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.” James 1:14-15 (NLT) “Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away. These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.” James 1:14-15 (NLT) 5. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 5. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 5. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 6. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 6. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 6. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 7. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 7. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ 7. ____________________________________ ____________________________________ “And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” 1 Cor. 6:11 (NIV) “And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” 1 Cor. 6:11 (NIV) “And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” 1 Cor. 6:11 (NIV) Life Group Discussion Guide Sexual Purity Life Group Discussion Guide Sexual Purity Life Group Discussion Guide Sexual Purity Intro: Thanks to the media, blaring messages about sex invade our daily lives, often undermining traditional moral values. Think about what you see and hear in music, magazines, TV shows, movies and conversations? What messages about sex are you getting? How have these messages changed from a generation ago. Intro: Thanks to the media, blaring messages about sex invade our daily lives, often undermining traditional moral values. Think about what you see and hear in music, magazines, TV shows, movies and conversations? What messages about sex are you getting? How have these messages changed from a generation ago. Intro: Thanks to the media, blaring messages about sex invade our daily lives, often undermining traditional moral values. Think about what you see and hear in music, magazines, TV shows, movies and conversations? What messages about sex are you getting? How have these messages changed from a generation ago. Read: Romans 1:22-27; 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Read: Romans 1:22-27; 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Read: Romans 1:22-27; 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 1. Some people say homosexuality is natural and moral; others say it is unnatural and immoral. Based on what the Apostle Paul writes to the church in Rome (1:22-27), how do we know? 1. Some people say homosexuality is natural and moral; others say it is unnatural and immoral. Based on what the Apostle Paul writes to the church in Rome (1:22-27), how do we know? 1. Some people say homosexuality is natural and moral; others say it is unnatural and immoral. Based on what the Apostle Paul writes to the church in Rome (1:22-27), how do we know? 2. Is homosexuality an orientation God intended for some people, or is it a perversion of normal sexuality? Provide evidence. 2. Is homosexuality an orientation God intended for some people, or is it a perversion of normal sexuality? Provide evidence. 2. Is homosexuality an orientation God intended for some people, or is it a perversion of normal sexuality? Provide evidence. 3. What have some argued to be causes of a homosexual orientation? Wouldn’t the presence of pre-conditions let homosexuals “off the hook” so to speak? 3. What have some argued to be causes of a homosexual orientation? Wouldn’t the presence of pre-conditions let homosexuals “off the hook” so to speak? 3. What have some argued to be causes of a homosexual orientation? Wouldn’t the presence of pre-conditions let homosexuals “off the hook” so to speak? 4. What’s the difference between homosexual temptation and sin? 4. What’s the difference between homosexual temptation and sin? 4. What’s the difference between homosexual temptation and sin? 5. Is it true that “once gay, always gay”? What does the Apostle Paul argue in his letter to the church at Corinth (1 Cor. 6:9-11)? How does this impact a conversation you might have with a gay friend who’s struggling? 5. Is it true that “once gay, always gay”? What does the Apostle Paul argue in his letter to the church at Corinth (1 Cor. 6:9-11)? How does this impact a conversation you might have with a gay friend who’s struggling? 5. Is it true that “once gay, always gay”? What does the Apostle Paul argue in his letter to the church at Corinth (1 Cor. 6:9-11)? How does this impact a conversation you might have with a gay friend who’s struggling? 6. How do I respond when someone in my life tells me he or she is gay? 6. How do I respond when someone in my life tells me he or she is gay? 6. How do I respond when someone in my life tells me he or she is gay? 7. In what ways are the concepts of self-denial and the pursuit of sexual purity and holiness relevant to the topic of homosexuality? 7. In what ways are the concepts of self-denial and the pursuit of sexual purity and holiness relevant to the topic of homosexuality? 7. In what ways are the concepts of self-denial and the pursuit of sexual purity and holiness relevant to the topic of homosexuality? 8. Is the debate about homosexuality simply a debate about homosexuality or is it about broader issues of greater importance to the church? Do two people who seem to agree theologically in every way except their views of morality of homosexual behavior really agree on all those other matters? 8. Is the debate about homosexuality simply a debate about homosexuality or is it about broader issues of greater importance to the church? Do two people who seem to agree theologically in every way except their views of morality of homosexual behavior really agree on all those other matters? 8. Is the debate about homosexuality simply a debate about homosexuality or is it about broader issues of greater importance to the church? Do two people who seem to agree theologically in every way except their views of morality of homosexual behavior really agree on all those other matters?