Carol Siskin The Virtues of Growing Older Lesson 1: Overview • • • • Pre-reading questions Background information New words and expressions A global picture Pre-reading Questions • • • • What are the virtues of being old? What are the virtues of being young? What are the vices of being old? What are the vices of being young? active energetic flexible adaptable curious rebellious contradictory unrealistic quick in response radical ambitious reckless creative easily distracted conceited • • • • • • • • Wise Experienced Independent Mature Philosophical Contented Confident Thrifty • • • • • • • • Slow & Weak Forgetful Chatter Untidy Prone to hoard Miserly Sceptical Superstitious Background Information • What is an “Ageing Society”? • According to the definition of the UNESCO, a country or region becomes an aging society once: – people 60 years old and older make up 10% of its population – a group of 65-year-olds and above account for 7% of the populace Background Information • Is China an aging society now? • Yes. China has 人口普查统计 crossed the threshold of aging society by the United Nations’ criteria. The 2009 demographic census statistics showed that – people aged 60 and older (167 million) already accounted for 12.5% of the general population – this number is increasing by 3 million every year. – Experts predict that the group of people aged 65 and above would make up 20% by 2035. Background Information • What are the problems of an aging society? – Demand for the infrastructure(基础设施) and social services – Demand for effective pension and healthcare system – A labor resource shortage – The high preventive bank saving rate – A dilemma of family planning policy Empty Nesters As I sit here alone I see nothing but people passing me by I try to smile and to say "Hi" But no one notices someone who is being kind They look to me like I am nothing Then they turn their heads Seeming to be afraid to be seen saying "Hi" to an old man like me … — 2001 by Michelle Korgis-Fitzpatrick New Words & Expressions • • • • • Reading aloud (page 91) Meaning and use Word derivation Word association Word differentiation Understanding the Meaning • Grecian Formula a popular men’s hair product in the US. Three easy-to-use forms: * Grecian Liquid * Grecian Cream * Grecian Plus Understanding the Meaning • Oil of Olay a product of the world-famous Procter & Gamble Corporation(宝洁公司). It was born in 1950s. Understanding the Meaning • Gym – I take yoga lessons at a ~. (= gymnasium) – I can’t do ~ today. (=gymnastics) <syn.> Stadium Health center Understanding the Meaning • Jog – She ~s round the park for half an hour every morning. • Jogging – He decided to go ~ each morning. Understanding the Meaning • Aging = ageing – Is ~ an experience to be dreaded? Aging Process (18-68) 18 28 38 48 58 68 Understanding the Meaning • Milk shake • Slush Lemon squash punch Word Expansion sundae puff • ice-cream cones fruit jelly egg tart Understanding the Meaning • Wiry – Mr. Gates was a ~ little man. (=rather thin, but with strong muscles 精瘦结实的) – That boy has got ~ black hair. (=resembling wire in form and texture 金属丝般坚硬的) Understanding the Meaning • Loose-fitting Loose-fitting pants Loose-fitting blouse Understanding the Meaning • School blazer front back Understanding the Meaning • Tailor – The ~ makes the man. 人靠衣装。 – The best tailors tailored him. 第一流的裁缝替 他做衣服。 –The lie has been ~ed to look like the truth. Understanding the Meaning • Freak – This man is a real ~. – Snowing in this season is a ~ of nature. – It sort of frightens – me. I guess I am – kind of freaked – out by it. Understanding the Meaning Apple pie Pecan pie Chicken pie Understanding the Meaning • Lanky ungracefully tall and thin – That ~ man used to be a basketball player. – The ~ man in the picture is a newlywed. Blank-filling Exercise • • • • Why are people so obsessed o________ with money? You do look a freak f______ in those clothes. He lay writhing on the ground in agony a_____. No one could have come out of that bombardment with his sanity s______. • If the p_______ premise is true, then the conclusion must be true. • How was it that she could tolerate t_______ such noise? Word Derivation V. tolerate tailor age N. toleration tailor aging A. tolerant tailor-made aged/age V. idealize freak agonize N. ideal freak agony A. ideal freak/freakish agonizing Word Derivation V. criticize N. criticism/critic accomplish automate ~ment automation A. critical accomplished automatical N. gym teens sanity A. gymnastic teenage sane N. fever adolescence muscle A. feverish adolescent muscular Word Derivation • • • • • • • • plead → <n.> dread → <adj.> lanky → <n.> wiry → <n.> tolerate → <adj.> convince → <adj.> slave → <v.> pursue → <n.> • • • • • • • • plea dreadful lankiness wiriness tolerable convincing enslave pursuit Word Association • Mega-dose • Take one dose of this cough syrup three times a day. • Mega-: <origin from Greek> great – The film is set to earn megabucks. – Tom Cruise is a Hollywood megastar. – Can you imagine the power of a 100megaton bomb? (百万吨/兆吨) – megabyte (MB); mega-city; mega-jet Word Association Our life journey: child → Infant → baby → toddler → little girl/boy → girl/boy → teenager → adolescent → youth → adult → middle age → old age / grey hair / senior citizen / elderly / OAP (=old age pensioner) Word Differentiation • Convince vs. Persuade convince them of your • You'll need to _________ enthusiasm for the job. • Despite all my efforts to persuade ________ him ,he wouldn't agree. convinced them of our • We finally __________ innocence. • Try to persuade _________ them to come with us. Word Differentiation • Idea vs. Ideal • With clear water and green mountains, this ideal place is an _______ for a holiday. • It is a good _______ to do some research idea before you go. idea • The purpose is to get a better _______ of consumer tastes. ideal • The swimming pool is _______ for a quick dip. Word Differentiation • Loose; lose; loss • He’d moved to another job; it’s a great loss ________ to our firm. losing her • Linda was very upset about _______ job. • I can’t open the door because I’ve lost _______ the key. loose • You’d better wear your hair ________. Word Differentiation • Careless vs. Carefree • After finishing the Band Four Exam, we all carefree felt happy and __________. careless • She had been __________ and had left the window unlocked. • People always tend to look back on their carefree time. childhood as a _________ Word Differentiation • Quirk vs. Coincidence • By some _________ of fate the two of us quirk were on the same train. • They accepted her attitude as one of her quirks little __________. • It was a coincidence __________ that she was wearing a jersey exactly like Laura’s. • They met by coincidence ____________. Word Differentiation • Phase vs. Phrase • Don’t worry about your son’s shyness; it’s phase he’s going through. just a ________ phrase is “it’s a pleasure”. • His favorite ________ phrase • It’s important to _________ the question correctly. phases of Picasso’s work. • It covers all ________ Assignment: A Mini-Speech Contest • Each of you is to use your wildest imagination to get prepared for a 2-minute mini-speech on the following topic: • • If I were 60, I would… Thank you! To be continued. Lesson 2: Overview • Word review • Text analysis – Comprehension – Language points – Sentence highlights Word Matching • • • • • • • • Words tolerate adolescent agony freak feverishly convince accomplished • • • • • • • • Synonyms anguish skilled oddity endure persuade teenage excitedly Word Matching • • • • • • • • Words sanity worship lanky wiry feverish slave critical • • • • • • • • Antonyms stocky master despise complimentary flabby insanity calm Word Review • We finally convinced c__________ them of our innocence. • One of his quirks q______ is that he refuses to travel by train. • He was obsessed o_________ with a craving for materialistic gratification. • His legs are strong and muscular m__________. • Cars will be automatically a___________ controlled by computer in the future. Word Review • What are the major and minor premise on which the conclusion is p______ based? • It was comic to see him trying to get his lanky l______ frame into that small car. • She wondered if she was losing her sanity s_______. accomplished at the left• Tom was a____________ handed manipulation of the dinner fork. A Global Picture • What is the writer’s attitude towards growing old? • What is the author’s purpose of writing? • The writer’s purpose is not to deny the virtues of being young, but to point out some advantages of growing older that have been overlooked. A Global Picture • What are the main benefits of growing old listed in the text? • Being less obsessed with one’s appearance (para.3). • Being less uncertain about the unknowns (para.4). • Being sure of one’s identity (para.5). Structure of the Text • Part I (para.1-2) – her own view about growing older • Part II (para.3-5) – advantages of growing older • Part III (para.6) – her parents' contentment Text Analysis • • • • Part I (para.1-2): Comprehension questions Language points Sentence highlights Comprehension Questions • Why do people want to hide their gray hair and delay the effect of aging? • What does the author mean when she says “ it is un-American to say so”? • Does the writer deny the virtues of being young? Language Points • Worship (para.1) – There is a church where people have ~ped for hundreds of years. – He absolutely ~s her. (=love or admire) – The hero-worship of the fans gathered at the airport. – We were soon joined by His Worship the Mayor.(used in addressing or referring to an important person 市长阁 下) Language Points • work out (para.1): engage in vigorous physical exercise – I ~ out regularly to keep fit. – She’s ~ing out in the gym. – He ~s out with the team three times weekly. – Things ~ed out quite differently. – I can’t ~ out the meaning of this poem. Language Points • Idioms with “age”: • age bracket=age group=age range • age of consent: the age when someone can legally get married or have a sexual relationship – The general ~ of consent for sexual activity is 16. • in this day and age: at the present time – Why dress so formally in this day and ~? • come of age: reach adult status – The company was to be held in trust for Eddie until he came of ~. Language Points • the New Age movement: it is both a religious and a social movement relating to spiritual beliefs, types of medicine, and ways of living that are not traditional Western ones – Meditation – Astrology – Alternative medicine Language Points • Sign with the devil (para.2): • A deal/pact with the Devil, or theme Faustian bargain is a cultural motif widespread in the West, best exemplified by the legend of Faust and the figure of Mephistopheles. – He made a deal with the devil for the gift of music. Sentence Highlight • …gladly sign with the devil • just to be young again? • … gladly sign a contract • with the devil so that the • devil would help you • become young again • …be ready to do anything, even to work for the devil just to be young again Language Points • Dread (para.2) – I ~ to think what Russell will say. – The thought of returning to London filled her with ~. • Un-American (para.2) • Prefix un- is added to adjectives or participles to denote the absence of a quality or state, meaning “not”. Language Points • The prefix un- and non- both mean “not”, but there is often a distinction in terms of emphasis. Un- tends to be stronger and less neutral than non-. – His language was refreshingly un-academic. – A non-academic life suits him. – He has applied for a nonscientific job in the Civil Service. (=not connected with science) – It was unscientific not to measure your results. Sentence Highlight • Perhaps it is un-American to say so,… (para.2) • Perhaps it is contrary to the values commonly held by most American people,… • Perhaps it is not in agreement with the American idea,… Sentence Highlight • Wouldn’t any person…? Isn’t aging an experience to be dreaded? (para.2) • Rhetorical question: – O, Wind, if winter comes, can spring be far behind? (Shelly) – When Adam delved and Eve span, who was then the gentleman? (John Ball) – How dare you ask me such a question? (Bernard Shaw) Text Analysis • • • • • Part II (para.3-5): Comprehension questions Language points Sentence highlights Comprehension Questions • What is the first advantage of growing older? • What technique is used to project the difference between adolescents and people in their forties? • Is it accurate to say that older people are totally free from uncertainty? Comprehension Questions • What technique is used by the author to project the difference between adolescents and people in their forties? • The technique of contrast is used. – adolescents “feel anxious about what others will think” – older people are happy “as long as we feel good about how we look” Language Points • be apt to (para.3): to have a natural tendency to do something – This kind of shoe is ~ to slip on wet ground. – Babies are ~ to put objects into their mouths. • Cf: be inclined to: have a tendency to do sth – She’s inclined to gossip with complete strangers. Language Points • Per`fect (para.3): <v.> – He’s busy ~ing his bowling technique. – She strove to be the `perfect wife.<adj.> • • • • • the object <n.> the produce <n.> the increase <n.> the contrast <n.> the protest <n.> to object <v.> to produce <v.> to increase <v.> to contrast <v.> to protest <v.> Language Points • be obsessed with (para.3) – Some women are ~ with the need to keep their home as clean as a hospital. – The girl was ~ with the desire to become a movie star. • plead (para.3):make an emotional appeal – The wife of one of the hostages appeared on TV last night to ~ for her husband’s life. – He refused to listen to her tearful pleas. Sentence Highlight • When young, you are apt to be obsessed with your appearance. (para.3) • When you are young, you are likely to focus all your attention on your appearance. Language Points • fall apart (pa.3) – This cup just fell apart in my hands. – The world's transport systems would ~ apart without a supply of electricity. 没有电力供应全世界的运输系统将陷于瘫痪。 • would be v-ing (pa.3) – He said that they would be reading when she came. – He asked me what I would be doing when he came the next day. Sentence Highlight • If our parents didn’t get them for us, we felt our world would fall apart. (para.3) • If our parents didn’t get the “right” clothes we wanted, we felt our world would break up / disintegrate. Language Points • Smartly (para.3): in a stylish way – Nancy ~ dressed and aloof. 南希衣着入时,神情冷淡。 – He drew himself up, saluted ~. 他打起精神,敬 了一个很帅的礼。 Smartly tailored leather jacket → Sentence Highlight • I often wonder how my parents, and parents in general, manage to tolerate their children during the adolescent years. (para.3) • I often wonder how my parents, and parents as a whole try to endure their children during the adolescent years. Language Points • at the mercy of (para.3): completely in the power of – The dog’s life is at the ~ of its master. – They were lost at the ~ of the wind and weather. – The gunmen showed no mercy in killing innocent men and women. – It is a mercy that no one was killed in the car crash. – Is mercy killing illegal in your country? Sentence Highlight • And women, I’m embarrassed to admit, even more than men, have always seemed to be at the mercy of fashion. (para.3) • I am embarrassed to admit that women are less capable than men of resisting the temptation of fashion. Comprehension (para.4) • What is the second advantage of being older? • Which sentence pinpoints the writer’s view? • The last sentence: what truly worries the young people is not the problem of age, but the unknowns in the future. Language Points • be preferable to (para.4) – Poverty is ~ to ill health. – Anything is ~ to having her stay for a whole week. • await (para.4) – I am ~ing their reply. – She is in prison ~ing trial. – The committee is ~ing a decision from head office before it takes any action. Sentence Highlight • …major decisions await you at every turn. (para.4) • …major decisions are there for your to make at every important point in your life. Language Points • It is no wonder (para.4) – It is no ~ you can’t sleep when you eat so much. – It’s no ~ you have a stomachache. I told you not to eat so much ice-cream. • facade (para.4) – They hid the troubles plaguing their marriage behind a ~ of family togetherness. – Behind her cheerful ~ , she's a really lonely person. Sentence Highlight • It’s no wonder that, despite their carefree facade, they are often confused, uncertain, and troubled by all the unknowns in their future. (para.4) • It is not surprising / only too natural that although they seem to have no worries or problems, they are often confused, uncertain, and anxious by all the unknowns in their future. Comprehension (para.5) • What is the greatest benefit of growing older? • How does the author contrast young people with older ones in terms of self-identity? • The author implied that lack of the knowledge about yourself can bring about a kind of adolescent insanity. Language Points • unsettling (para.5): causing to feel anxious and uneasy – It has become a potentially ~ element in East-West relations. (不稳定因素) – All this talk of death was ~ him. <v.> • Take up with (para.5) – The girl is ~ing up with the Smith boys. – His mind was wholly ~n up with the question.(=fully occupied by) Sentence Highlight • It means trying on new selves by taking up with different crowds. (para.5) • It means that you make friends with different people in order to find new identity for yourself. Language Points • resent (para.5): feel annoyed about – He bitterly ~s being treated like a child. – She ~ed his/him making all the decisions. – I bitterly ~ his attempts to interfere in my work. • accomplished (para.5) – Both my parents are ~ musicians.有造诣的 – That smoking causes health problems is an ~ fact. (=unquestionable) Language Points • by way of (para.5) – We had some sandwiches by ~ of a meal. – By ~ of introducing himself, he showed me his card. • keep a running score (para.5): keep a continuous record – Is anybody keeping (the) ~ in this game? – Let me keep the ~ for you. Sentence Highlight • I no longer blame my parents for my every personality quirk or keep a running score of everything they did wrong raising me. (para.5) • I no longer blame my parents for every strange aspect of my personality or keep reminding myself of the unhappy things that my parents did to me in the process of bringing me up. Comprehension (Part III) • What does the author mainly tell us in the last paragraph? • What significance does the author draw from her parents’ contentment in their sixties? • The newer (younger) is not necessarily better, and one can be happier than before as he/she grows older. Language Points • gladden (para.6): make glad – The sight of the child running about after his long illness ~ed his father’s heart. – The high, childish laugh was a sound that ~ed her heart. • hold out (para.6) – These plans ~ out the prospect of new jobs for the area. – I don’t ~ out much hope that the weather will improve. Sentence Highlight • Their contentment holds out great promise for me as I move into the next… (para.6) • Their contentment makes me believe that I’ll also be happy as I move into the next… Thank you! To be continued. Lesson 3: Overview • • • • Duty report Translation practice Exercise highlights Oral practice Students’ Duty Report • Translation of Trademarks • Story of Faust • Social Welfare Johann Georg Faust Dr Johann Georg Faust 巡游的 炼金术士 (1480-1540) was an 占星家 itinerant alchemist, astrologer, and magician of the German Renaissance. His life became the nucleus of the popular 17th Century German tale of Doctor Faust. Portrait of Faust Story of Faust • Though a highly successful scholar, Faust is bored and disappointed. • He decides to make a deal with the devil, exchanging his ________ soul for unlimited knowledge __________ and worldly pleasures _________. • In response, the Devil's representative Mephistopheles appears. Story of Faust • Mephistopheles makes a bargain with Faust: Mephistopheles will serve Faust with his magic powers for a term of years, but at the end of the term, the Devil will claim Faust's soul and Faust will be eternally damned. be condemned by God to suffer eternal punishment in hell Story of Faust • During the term, Faust makes use of Mephistopheles in various ways. • In many versions of the story, Mephistopheles helps him to seduce a beautiful and innocent girl, usually named Gretchen, who is destroyed. Story of Faust • However, Gretchen's naive innocence saves her in the end and she enters Heaven _________. • Faust, however, is irrevocably corrupted, and when the term ends, the Devil carries him off to Hell ______. Goethe's Faust • The most important version of the legend is the play Faust by the 18th-century German author Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. • A hybrid between a play and an extended poem, Goethe's two-part “closet drama" ends in a Faust being saved and carried aloft to heaven. 案头剧; 书斋剧 Influence • The story of Faust inspired a great deal of a sound moral story literature, music and illustration. • It remains a resonant parable on scientific learning and religion, passion and seduction, independence and love, as well as other subjects. • Faust is a scientific empiricist who is forced to confront questions of goodevil and theand devil _____, God _______, sexuality and mortality. Translation Practice • • • • • embarrassed convince contradict beyond make a choice • • • • • deny oneself take up with in the mood work out be obsessed with Useful Words & Idioms • embarrassed – Her husband’s drunken behavior ~ her. 她丈夫的醉后举止使她难堪。 – We are not trying to ~ him in any way. 我们一点也不想使他为难。 – He felt catered to and at the same time ~. 他感到受宠若惊。 – Heavy gambling losses ~ him. 赌博输掉大量钱财,这使他经济拮据。 Useful Words & Idioms • convince – 他设法使陪审团(jury)相信他是无罪的. • He managed to ~ the jury of his innocence. I hope this – 我希望这次失败能使你改变主意. • failure will ~ you to change your mind. – 他没能使董事们相信他的计划是可行的. He failed to ~ the directors that his plan/ proposal would work. Useful Words & Idioms • contradict – If you will excuse my presumption, I should like to ~ what you have just said. 假如你能原谅我的放肆, 我想对你刚才说的话表示异议。 – Recent evidence has tended to ~ established theories on this subject. 新的证据似乎与原有理论相驳 – 如果你再和我作对,我就炒你鱿鱼。 If you ~ me once more, you’re fired. – 约翰对事件的陈述和彼得说的截然相反。 John’s account of the event directly ~s Peter’s. Useful Words & Idioms • beyond – She seems to be mature ~ her years. 她似乎比她的实际年龄显得成熟。 – I was touched ~ words by her story. – 这座小镇变得都认不出来了。 The small town has changed ~ recognition. – 竟然有这么蠢的人,简直让人难以置信。 It’s ~ belief that anyone could be so stupid. – 她的美貌无与伦比。Her beauty is ~ compare. Useful Words & Idioms • make a choice 她被迫在家庭和事业之间做出决择She 。 was forced to make a ~ between family and career. She felt it • 她觉得在这两个男人之间很难做出选择。 very difficult make a ~ between the two men. – We offer these materials in order to help students make more informed career ~s. 我们提供这些材料以便帮助学生在了解更多信息 的前提下做出就业的选择。 Useful Words & Idioms • deny oneself – We ~ied ourselves for years, until we’d finished paying for the house. – 为了减肥,她克制自己不吃甜食。 She ~ied herself all the sweet foods in order to lose weight/go on a diet. – 母亲节衣缩食使孩子们受到了好的教育。 By ~ing herself, Mother gave the children a good education. Useful Words & Idioms • take up with – He’s ~n up with a divorced woman, I understand. 他和一个离了婚的女人好上了 – The question of public housing should be ~n up with the Minister concerned. 公众的住房问题理应让相关部长了解。 – He can’t help; he’s too taken up with his own problems. 别指望他,他自己的事还忙不过来呢。 Translation Practice • take up with – Mary took up with a boy of whom her family disapproved. 玛丽最近和一个男孩 好上了,可她家里人都反对。 – David is being treated unfairly, I shall ~ things up with his teacher. 戴维受到了不公平的对待,我得找老师谈谈。 – 他一直在埋头准备考试。 She’s completely taken up with preparing for her exams. Useful Words & Idioms • in the mood – They went home in a dark/gloomy ~. – A few hours later, she was in a brighter ~. – The city is in a festive/holiday ~. – What was the general ~ of the class? – I’m just not in the ~ for a party tonight. – I was not in the buying ~. – When he was in the ~, he would dance alone in his bedroom. 情绪好的时候 Useful Words & Idioms • work out – I couldn’t ~ out whether it was a band playing or a record. 我无法确定究竟是乐队在演奏还是 – Can you ~ out on the map where we are now? 你能在地图上找到我们现在的位置吗? – When did you ~ out that he had been lying to you? 你是什么时候发觉他在对你撒谎的? – His shirt has ~ed out. 他的衬衫拖到外面了。 – The mine was ~ed out long ago. 开采尽了 Useful Words & Idioms • Be obsessed with – Obsessed with the present, he is beyond thinking of the future. 一味关注眼前,从不考虑 – Though he sometimes seems ~ with numbers, his speeches are otherwise accessible. 除了有时候好像特别喜欢引用数字以外,…… – He’s ~ with the idea of getting a sports car. 他一心想买一辆跑车。 Grammar Points • • • • • • Much vs. Many A great deal of A large number of A great many Everyone vs. Every one Every vs. Each Many & Much • • • many boys there? Did you see ______ I didn’t have much _____ breakfast this morning. Many a man (=Many men) would _______ welcome your valuable suggestion. (part of a subject) Much of • _________ what you say is not true. Much research has been carried out in • ______ order to establish the cause of AIDS. (formal) A great deal of + Sing. Non-Count A great (large) number of + Pl. Count • He seems to have had a great _____ deal of trouble leaving the country. • She spends a great _____ deal of time making up her face every morning. • The editor had found a great (large) number of mistakes in the manuscript. ______ • The soldier lost a great quantity of blood. A great many = very many • I’ve known her for a great many years. • He devoted a good deal of attention to the problem. • There’s plenty of room for everyone inside. • A lot of students want to buy this CD. (informal) Everyone vs. Every one • In a small village everyone knows everyone else. • We looked at the potatoes in the bag; every (single) one was rotten. • Get off the bus, every one of you! • Every one (of the boys) was given a tool kit. Every vs. Each — Can you tell the difference? • • • • • Each man must do his best. Every man must do his best. He gave every boy two apples. He gave each boy two apples. Each child has his own road to success. • We want every child to succeed. Each or Every? every reason to believe that he • We have ______ is innocent. Each sex has its own physical • ______ characteristics. every other day. • We went to see John ______ every inch a gentleman. • He is ______ Oral Practice • A mini-speech contest: A Mini-Speech Contest • Choose one student to be the chair. • Choose five students to be the judges. • Judge the performance according to the speaker’s content (40%), language (40%) and presentation skills (20%). • Choose one student to be the scorer. • Choose one student to be the timer. • Draw lots to decide who is to speak. • Each speaker must finish his/her speech within two minutes. What is success? • At age 4 success is...not peeing in your pants. • At age 12 success is...having friends. • At age 16 success is...having a drivers license. • At age 20 success is...having sex. • At age 35 success is...having money. What is success? • At age 50 success is...having money. • At age 60 success is...having sex. • At age 70 success is...having a drivers license. • At age 75 success is...having friends. • At age 80 success is...not peeing in your pants. The end of the unit. Thank you! Sentence Highlight • Being young means feeling happy with yourself one day and wishing you were never born the next. (para.5) • Being young means feeling happy with yourself one day and wishing you were never born the next day (because you feel so miserable).