Building Bridges
A training programme for young people in custody and
their Parents
Strengthening the relationship between a young person in custody and their
parent (father, mother or a carer) can result in much reduced depression in the
young person as well as improved behaviour. The resulting improvement in the
young person’s demeanour can improve the communication and prospects of
longer term reconciliation with their family.
Studies in America have shown that an increase in frequency of visits to young
people in custody can help to reduce the level and likelihood of depression.
The ‘building bridges’ programme aims to improve the relationship of the young
person and their parents.
Young men and adults are responsible for the vast majority of crime committed
in society. Many of these young men also have problems forming relationships
and a significant proportion of them do not have good, or often any,
relationships with their fathers. If the relationship with the mother also
deteriorates then they can be left isolated. Young women historically are better
at developing close relationships but can also lose the bond with parents or
carers, particularly when in custody.
This programme works with parents and young people and aims to rebuild
child/parent relationships by improving communication, examining the damage
that is done by conflict, anger management and learning how to forgive. This is
a useful and positive addition to resources available to young offender
institutions.