Peacemaker (chapter 8)
Stephen Rodgers
4/17/2011
Speak the Truth in Love
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Introduction
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II.
Bring Hope Through the Gospel
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III.
By default, be “Gospel-speakers” rather than “Law-speakers”
Be Quick to Listen
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IV.
Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him
who is the head, into Christ, (Ephesians 4:15)
Waiting
Attending
Clarifying
Reflecting
Agreeing
The Tongue of the Wise Brings Healing
1. Breathe Grace
2. Make Charitable Judgments
3. Speak the Truth in Love
4. Talk from Beside, Not from Above
5. Help Others Examine the Desires of Their Heart
6. Choose the Right Time and Place
7. Talk in Person Wherever Possible
8. Engage Rather Than Declare
9. Communicate Clearly So That You Cannot Be Misunderstood
10. Plan Your Words
11. Use “I” Statements
12. Be Objective
13. Use the Bible Carefully
14. Ask for Feedback
15. Offers Solutions and Preferences
16. Recognize Your Limits
V.
Conclusion