HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS
What are some
Reasons for Dating?
 Fun
and enjoyable
 Friendship and intimacy
 Companionship and emotional support
 Learn how to communicate and
resolve conflict effectively
 Explore characteristics you would like
in a future partner or spouse
What makes someone
Dateable?
Are You
Dateable?
What are some characteristics you
look for in a dating partner?
Write 4 of the most important
ones to you.
 Is honest
 Is unselfish
 Treats you and
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others well
Is tolerant and
respectful
Has similar values
Is fun to be with
Respects himself /
herself
Do you share the same
qualities that you are
looking for in someone
to date?
What makes a relationship
Healthy or Unhealthy?
Would you be able to
recognize an unhealthy
relationship if you were in one?
Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships:
Healthy Relationship
Unhealthy Relationship
Equality
Control
Honesty
Dishonesty
Physical safety
Physical abuse
Respect
Disrespect
Comfort
Intimidation
Sexual respectfulness
Sexual abuse
Independence
Dependence
Humor
Hostility
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Prevention
Healthy Relationships Skills
Controlling Anger
 Problem-solving
 Negotiating and
Compromising
 Being Assertive
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Fighting Fair
Understanding
Listening
Being a Role Model
Communicate!
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What are some things you
can do when first going
out with someone to
make things easier?
What are some of the benefits
of Dating in Groups?
 People
often begin a relationship by
dating in groups.
 Group dating may involve movies,
dances, or sporting events.
 You can get to know the other person
without the pressure of being alone.
 You may learn how your partner treats
other people.
What are some things you should
consider when dating someone?
 Respect
the rules your parents and
your partner’s parents have for dating
(curfews).
 Know your own and
your partner’s sexual
limits.
Ending a Relationship
 Most
dating relationships that begin
in adolescence eventually end.
 Hurt, frustration, anger, and
sometimes a sense of relief can
make break-ups feel overwhelming.
Break ups can be
difficult and emotional…
What are some things you
can do to make a
break up easier?
Do’s & Don’ts
when breaking up…
Write down the 4 that would make it easier
for you.
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Avoid spreading rumors about your ex.
Don’t repeatedly check your ex’s Facebook, etc.
Make plans with family, friends, and new people.
Avoid calling and texting your ex.
Listen to music that makes you feel better.
Get enough rest and do things you enjoy.
Delete embarrassing or harmful pictures of your ex.
No matter whose fault the
break up was, it’s important
to know why a relationship
didn’t work out to avoid the
same thing happening in
future relationships.
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