Taylor Tina Alex and Alexa

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Shapes how they see their self
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10: see themselves highly skilled or not
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11/12: use personal qualities define themselves
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Gender identity
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Role Model

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Puberty impacts
Hide feelings
Age 7
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Quite, worry and are sensitive
Age 8
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Dramatic and more positive
Age 9
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Self-absorbed and strict
Age 10
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Happier

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Emotion turns to the wider world
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Words to express emotion
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Teach children self control
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Childhood fears disappear
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Teens realize the danger around them

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Preventing emotional problems
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Be patient
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Self control
Anger (changing body)
Keep child under control
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Limits on behavior
Talk through issue
Understands complex ideas
Avoid taking it personally
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Don’t mean what is said
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Listen
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Give chance to explain what& why
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Complaints ≠ lesser consequences

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Teach value of being fit
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Need to be able to:
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Explain well
Have good judgment
Be well organized
Have good enthusiasm
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Goal: real full potential

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Physical, intellectual, social change
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Influences: surroundings/ environment
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Share bad emotions with friends not parents
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Realize can feel more than one feeling
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Coping

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Make better bonds
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Start becoming independent
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Self-regulation
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What parents should do
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Experience, expression, understanding, and regulation
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Coping skills
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Advice from peers