Harmony in the FAMILY
Understanding Values in Human
Relationships
Relationships
• Feeling or sense of
emotional bonding with
another;
• Relationships are reality of
our life;
• Relation extends from one
self to the entire existence;
• FAMILY- basic unit of
human interaction;
• Relationship is between
oneself and the other self
(I);
• Self (I) has the feelings in
relationship which are
definite;
• The feelings are
fundamental to the
relationship and can be
recognized;
• Recognition and fulfillment
of these feelings leads to
happiness of all;
Feelings (Values) in
Relationship
• TRUST- the foundational
value
• “to be assured that each
human being inherently
wants oneself and the
other to be happy and
prosperous.”
• Factors affecting Trust:
• Intention;
• Competence;
• Intention: What one aspires
for ( our natural
acceptance)
• Competence: ability to
fulfill the aspiration
• Judging oneself on the basis
of intention;
• Judgment of others on the
basis of competence;
RESPECT
• Right evaluation- to be evaluated as I am
• Disrespect Occurs when there is:
Over Evaluation;
Under Evaluation;
Otherwise Evaluation;
The Scenario Today
Differentiation
Physical
Facilities
Body
Sex
Wealth
Race
Age
Physical Strength
Beliefs
Post
Ism’s
Sects
• AFFECTION
Being related to the other;
• CARE
Nurturing and protecting the body;
• GUIDANCE
Ensuring right understanding and feelings in the
other;
• REVERENCE
Acceptance of excellence in the other;
* Excellence: achievement of right understanding
and living with harmony at all levels;
• GLORY
Appreciation for the other who has made efforts
for excellence;
• GRATITUDE
Acceptance for those who have made effort for
my excellence;
• LOVE (the complete value)
Being related to all;
• “It is the strength of our relationships, warmth
of our friendship, the time we have with our
parents, partners and children, the respect we
are given in the workplace and by our peers,
the achievements we forge collaboratively and
collectively, which generates real happiness
and fulfillment.”Human values - a beacon for
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