27 Orgasmic Blow Job
Tips To Make Your
Man Explode!
by Sean Jameson
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Building Up To Your BJ –
Teasing & Tantalizing
Your Man
Some men are ready and eager for sex or a
blow job 24/7. But this isn’t true for all of
them. In fact, some guys take a lot of coaxing
just to turn them on and get them in the
mood, and as your man ages, this becomes
more and more of an issue [1].
Here are a few different ideas you should use
to get him worked up before you even get
physical with him:
Sexy Selfies – Sending your man a sexy
selfie while he is at work or is in the gym is
the perfect way to turn him on and get him
ready for fun times ahead. Using an app like
Snapchat is best if you don’t want to worry
about the photos being stored on your phone.
Check out this guide to taking sexy selfies for
more tips.
Dirty Texts & Sexting – While your man is
at work or is just out of the house, try sending
him some dirty texts, letting him know about
what’s on your mind and what you are
planning for later. It can be something filthy
like, “I can wait to feel you explode in my
mouth tonight.” Or it can be something a little
more reserved like, “Can’t wait to see you
later…and my lips can’t wait either ;)” Or
you can describe in detail the blow job idea
you’ve just learned and are going to perform
on him.
You’ll get more great tips on sending your
man sexy texts in this chapter of the Dirty
Talking Guide.
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Out & About – If you are both out in public
together or at a dinner party where you can’t
possibly be intimate, then it’s the perfect time
to lean across and whisper something in his
ear to get him thinking about what you’ve got
planned for later. The Dirty Talking Guide
will give you step-by-step advice, examples,
and tips on what to say to tease, tantalize, and
amp up the sexual tension with your man.
A General Guideline For Tantalizing
Him – Often, guys get turned on by a lot of
things that many women don’t find arousing
[2], so keep this in mind when you are
coming up with your own ideas and tactics to
tease him and build up to a blow job.
This explains why your guy may love seeing a
picture of you naked, even though seeing a
snap of him naked doesn’t do much for you. It
also explains why you might get crazy horny
when reading erotica, while it might put your
man to sleep. In other words, just because
something turns you on, it doesn’t mean it
will turn him on, and vice-versa.
His Turn Ons – Your man may have certain
turn-ons and triggers specific to him that
massively ramp up the sexual tension and his
anticipation. They could be literally anything
from:
Reminding him of some very hot sex
you’ve had together.
Whispering some “trigger” word or
phrase in his ear.
Sensually touching specific parts of his
body.
Looking at him in a certain way.
The key is knowing and understanding these
specific turn-ons of his and then using them
to get his mind thinking, longing for what you
have planned later.
A Long Build Up – You can spend an hour
teasing, tantalizing, and slowly building up to
your blow job or… You can spend days doing
it.
If you aren’t going to see your man for a
while, you can start sending him dirty texts,
sexy pics, and stories detailing what you plan
on doing to him a number of days before
seeing him.
The entire time, he’ll be thinking of you,
desperate for what awaits.
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Fellatio Foreplay
It may be surprising to hear, but men love
foreplay to be drawn out significantly longer
more than most women think [3], even if
most men get turned on quicker than most
women [4]. So, while giving him a quickie BJ
can be super hot for both of you (like say
sneaking away for a few minutes at a party),
you’ll find that a slow, teasing build-up is
going to result in your man blowing a bigger
load [5]…and a bigger smile on his face.
This is probably the most powerful, but also
the most overlooked blow job tip you can
learn. With this in mind, here are a bunch of
great “fellatio foreplay” tips that you can use
before giving your man head:
Hand Massage – This one is probably the
easiest to get right. While you are kissing him
or just talking to him or while you’re just
physically close to him, put your hand on his
crotch. So your hand should be resting on his
briefs or his trousers. To make it smooth,
start by first placing your hand on his leg and
moving it up from there. Then just softly start
massaging his penis and testicles outside of
his trousers/briefs.
It’s as simple as softly running your hands
over this area, but you can also get a little
more aggressive by softly grabbing and
squeezing his cock and balls and then
releasing the pressure.
After massaging him for a few minutes, help
him take off his trousers and briefs.
Then just keep doing what you were doing,
running your hands over his manhood. If you
like, you can also softly trace your fingers up
and down his dick and around his balls. If you
want to learn more hand job techniques, then
make sure to check out the Hand Job Guide
here.
Talking To Him On Your Knees –
Another great blow job idea to build up to
giving your man head is talking to him while
on your knees.
You can start off with something simple like,
“So what do you want me to do now, baby?”
while holding his penis in your hands…you
can be sure that he’s going to ask you to give
him a blow job. He might even give you a tip
for a great blow job that lets you know how he
likes it!
As you become more confident and see his
enthusiasm, you can start expanding your
dirty talking, by
Telling him how much you are enjoying
giving him oral sex.
That you can’t wait to taste his cum.
How giving him a blow job turns you on.
Of course, you can also talk dirty throughout
your blow job too. The Dirty Talking Guide
will teach everything you need to know about
talking dirty.
So Close – Another bj tip you can do to build
up to your blow job is to work around his
manhood first. So instead of just taking him
into your mouth and giving him a blow job,
you could:
Kiss around his crotch and groin.
Gently massage his balls using your
tongue.
Softly “tickle” his testicles with the tips
of your fingers.
Run your nails over his ass cheeks.
The Kiss Trail – A red hot blow job tip that
allows you to move smoothly from kissing
your husband to taking him in your mouth is
to work slowly down from his lips to his penis
by kissing your way down. So you can move
from his lips to his neck to his chest to his
stomach until you reach his groin area. Of
course, this works way better if he is naked.
Along the way, you can pay attention to his
most sensitive spots.
Read More: The Most Important Erogenous
Zones.
If you want to learn more great foreplay tips,
then make sure to check out the Bad Girls
Bible Foreplay Guide here.
Should You Start Fast or Slow – It can be
incredibly hot to rip your man’s pants off, and
immediately take his penis in your mouth,
working furiously to bring him to orgasm
without much build up at all.
Sometimes we don’t have time for foreplay or
may even risk getting caught. That’s one
reason why people love quickies!
Read More: Quickies 101
On the other hand, it can also be super
satisfying to tease him and slowly work up to
your blow job, making your man squirm and
beg you to hurry up as you spend minute after
minute grazing and barely touching his penis
before you finally take him into your mouth.
Both of these build ups can be hugely
satisfying to your man, despite being so very
different.
The key is applying them correctly to each
situation, AND…
Making sure you don’t rely on just one tip for
a great blow job.
Of course, you can try out any of the 22
foreplay techniques from this post to keep
things varied.
So, the next time you are about to go down on
your man, think:
What will he find more satisfying:
When you use a long, slow, drawn out
build up where he is practically begging
you to hurry up, or…
When you don’t have time for a build up,
because all you can think of is taking
him in your mouth.
Now let’s learn what blow job tips will drive
your man wild…
Tips for a Good Blow Job
You’re both ready for the main event, now
what do you do? Try these bj tips!
Flick The Frenulum
For many men, the most sensitive spot on
their penis is their frenulum. The frenulum is
the underside of the tip of their penis, where
the glans joins his shaft [6].
An intensely pleasurable blow job tip that you
can use on him is to use the tip of your tongue
to apply a gentle flicking motion to it. While
you are naturally going to stimulate his
frenulum while sucking him (learn tips on
sucking here and here) or just licking his
penis (learn some oral sex licking techniques
here), this technique is different as you will be
focusing all your stimulation on a very
specific point on his penis.
Flicking his frenulum can be the perfect way
to start off your blow jobs before taking his
entire dick in your mouth. You can flick it upand-down, side-to-side, in circles, or by doing
a combination of all three.
Bear in mind that if your man has been
circumcised, there is a chance that his
frenulum has been removed [7].
Blowing Him
Many women are so anxious at the thought of
giving head to their man that they just get
straight to it with little or no build up and
with no teasing. It’s like they are focused only
on making him ejaculate and getting that
sperm out of him.
Gently teasing your man and building up the
sexual tension, so that he is practically
begging you to blow him is vital if you want to
take your blow jobs from good to great.
Another great way to amp up the sexual
tension and have him squirming in delight is
to lick him gently, making sure to use lots of
saliva and then blow on the wet patch you’ve
created. Blowing on the wet patch creates a
cooling sensation that is great for teasing your
man and making him moan with pleasure.
More tips on licking him here.
Try doing this for about a minute before you
take him into your mouth.
Kiss, Kiss
Another great way to start off your blow job is
by kissing his cock all over. Kissing is great if
you like taking things slowly and teasing your
man.
You can kiss his penis any way you want, but
it will be a lot easier when you use your hand
to hold it in place while you kiss it. There are
multiple different ways to kiss his penis, from
giving him small, quick ‘pecks,’ to giving him
longer, more intense kisses. He’ll especially
love it if you give him extra wet, sloppy kisses.
Don’t be surprised if you can see precum or
semen dripping from his cock at this stage.
You can also use this precum to wet your lips.
Kissing him is a fabulous way to pull back if
you feel him getting close to climaxing and
want him to wait a little longer before
reaching orgasm. It will also give your jaw a
rest if you find it getting tired from having
him in your mouth.
The Thing With Teeth
You already know how sensitive your
boyfriend’s penis is, especially the underside
of the head [8]. For pleasuring it, this is
obviously a good thing…but if you apply too
much pressure, or you are too rough with it,
then you’re going to hurt your man. It’s the
same for your clit and vagina if you are
masturbating, or your man is going down on
you. Learn some orgasmic masturbation
techniques from Chapter 2 of our Orgasm
Guide.
Just imagine how sore it would be if your
boyfriend had nails that were constantly
catching on you…or worse, can you imagine
how painful it would be if he started using his
teeth on you as he was licking you out and
performing cunnilingus. It would be agony!
The only mandatory blow job tip when giving
your man oral sex is that you absolutely must
not use your teeth on him. It can completely
ruin an otherwise fantastic BJ.
But what if he is particularly well endowed…
or you have a small mouth?
In situations like this, it can be almost
impossible to avoid using your teeth as you
take him into your mouth. The first thing you
can do is to wrap your lips around your teeth
so that your lips act as a soft barrier. The
second thing is focusing on techniques where
you don’t take him into your mouth like these
ones or by giving him a handjob (learn
everything you need to know about hand jobs
in this guide).
Side note: There is a small percentage of
men that enjoy it when you use your teeth
and apply a tiny bit of pressure on his penis,
using an almost featherlight touch on him.
My advice is never to try this UNTIL your
man mentions it himself.